How not to ruin your first date – ladies
Many bloggers have written about how men can make a perfect first impression on a first date. Others would focus on what men should not do on a first date so they don’t ruin the date. Let us look at it differently (or let us think differently), let’s discuss what ladies must not do on a first date so they don’t ruin it. After all, going out on a date can not be done alone, you need a partner to go with you.
It takes two to tango as the popular saying goes, all focus on men when it comes to dating tips is becoming boring. Especially, now that there are many feminist out there waiting to take charge fully. Let us put the ladies at the front of the mirror too, ladies now have many things to bring to the table when it comes to relationship. Arguably, you as a lady have more responsibilities than a man to make a date turn out interesting.
Have you ever been invited on a date by a guy and you noticed his interest in you dropped exponentially after the date? If yes, have you ever wondered why this man that was all over you just before the first date now struggle to check on you? The answer is not far from reach, you have ruined your first date with that man. You need to read this post till the end to know what not to do to ruin your 1st date. Here’s our advice to guide you from ruining your first date;
- Be Time Cautious: As a lady, you have been invited on a date with a good man you’d love to be with. Some courteous men would even offer you the privilege of choosing the time for the date. Either you chose the outing time or he did, you must be careful of time. You don’t want him get to your house to pick you up and you’re still undressed. Or if the agreement is for you to meet at the date venue, you must not keep him waiting all day. If you must be late at all, do not be later than ten minutes behind the scheduled time. The truth is, nobody loves to wait for too long, do not test his patience by keeping him waiting for too long. No matter how much he cherish you, he will lose a pinch of his interest in you if you keep him waiting for too long. Waiting stress people out, he may not even notice he’s losing it but eventually it will be clear to you he’s losing it. Do Not Keep Him Waiting!!!
- Dress Elegantly and Simple: Unless you both agreed on a particular dress sense, you must dress simple but beautifully. Showing up on a first date, you’re going to be low-key assessed by him and even the people around. You don’t want to create a first impression that you are not sociable by dressing shabbily or too casual. It’s said that you must let your fashion be your source of confidence. Do not be dressed in what you do not have confidence on. You are addressed as you are dressed! Be Simple and Elegant!!!
- Engage Him Intellectually: It is only natural that men wants to take charge of everything at every opportunity they have. He may want to be doing all the talking but you must not be mute all through the conversation. He will ask you questions, before you answer him at all, think about what you are about to say and reply precisely. You can not allow him to do all the asking, since first date is about you knowing each other better, ask him questions too. Whatever you want to say to him, be reasonable, do not ask him personal questions (e.g Will your family be happy to see me?). It’s strictly about you and him on a 1st date. Let your statements be precise and straightforward. Contribute In Conversations!!!
- Demand Less: Wherever you are having your date, he will offer you some foods and drinks. You can not decline this offer totally as it is not courteous to do so, what you should do is to demand less. You may offer him that you both go dutch (of course you are not expected to go on a date cashless or cardless) and if he disagrees, order for something not too expensive. Do not order for what you are not used to taking because you are not paying. Should you take anything against your body system and the body reacts negatively, it’s a turn off. You don’t want him to have the impression that you are gluttonous. Order For Less Expensive Things!!!
Men think a lot, they observe a lot too. There are little things you don’t even wanna imagine that turns them off. They like easily and unlike easily too. You can not impress men for too long, be your natural self and things will fall in place.