There certain number of topics people do debate on dailies when it comes to relationship. Whether it’s okay to be friend with someone’s ex has the front of these topics people argue about. In recent findings I have done, I have come to realize that even though we all have been through one or more relationships in the past, we have different views when it comes to matters like this. Some people think it’s okay to be friend with someone’s ex lover while searching think it’s very wrong to be friend with someone’s ex lover. Others do not care about what is right or wrong.
FOR THE LADIES: Are you still friend with your ex boyfriend?
As simple and straightforward the above question might look, it’s a million pound question.
Only a few times have people come to generally agree on certain issues, especially when it comes to relationship matters and this particular one is not an exception. When we ask if it’s okay to still be friend with someone’s ex lover, people are very subjective in their response. People tends to be prejudice and tackle the question emotionally rather than logically and it’s okay like that (relationship is personal after all).
So in search of answers to the asked question (are you still friend with your ex boyfriend?). I took on to twitter, I used a search term ‘friendship with ex boyfriend’ just to see what twitter users had to say about the matter. A collection of tweets from the past came on and only few were selected for the purpose of this post.
check these pictures to see ladies’ reactions about the matter;
FOR THE MEN: Are you still friend with your ex girlfriend?
Like I did for the question of if a lady think it’s okay to be friend with her ex boyfriend, I also used the search term ‘friendship with ex girlfriend’ to find out people’s opinions on twitter. I was able to gather a few response to the asked question on the part of the men.
check these pictures to see men’s reactions about the matter;
Conclusion: Like I wrote earlier that, people are subjective rather than objective on issues like this, it can be drawn from the collection of tweets fetched from twitter that some people (men and women) think it’s absolutely okay to remain friend with one’s ex lover. Some think it’s very wrong. Some are of the opinion that it’s almost impossible to be friend with one’s ex lover without any ulterior motive (another angle; maybe a research on this might prompt a post soon). Since I can not draw out a specific conclusion from my findings, I leave it to you guys (readers) to decide if it’s okay or not to be friend with one’s ex lover.
What are your thoughts on this matter?
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